Getting the index of an Item in a DataRow by its column caption

Question

We know that if we have a DataTable, we can populate it with the code like
DataTable table; DataRow row = table.NewRow(); row["ColName"] = <value>;

 Here "ColName" is the name given to the particular column while creating it, as:

 DataColumn dc = new DataColumn("ColName");
 dc.Caption = "Column Caption";

I am trying to create a customised ListView control, where I would like my users to deal with the Column Caption values. I do not want them to deal with two entities - the Column name and Caption as it would be confusing. I can't use the column caption for the name either as Caption can contain spaces in it, and names with spaces won't work in a query string (Please correct me if I'm wrong here ...)

While creating a DataColumn, if we do not specify a name, a default name is generated by the system.

e.g. if I do
DataColumn dc = new DataColumn();
dc.Caption = "Column Caption";

then - the system generates a name like "Column1" ... Is there a way that I can retrieve this name from the value of the caption? Is there any way to add data to the DataRow just by knowing the column caption??? (without cycling through the Columns list of the DataTable and individually checking for column names ...)

Thanks in advance.