Hello,
How about SSIS package or Import export wizard is your DML big or small generally for Big DML i would recommend SSIS or imp/exp wizard.Youcan use OLEDB provider to connect to Oracle database or when you create connection.
Regarding load it depends on task you do .
Coming to your linked server with oen query there are some limitation
http://technet.microsoft.com/en-us/library/ms188427.aspx
If DML is small ,few rows ,I would like you to access oracle with Linked server and using fully qualified name .If your query is light load will be light and yes oracle will treat it as connection
>> so their DBA doesn't complain that my connection is preventing backups or prevents oracle from being shut down. Thanks.
That would be foolish of him to say unless you run some bad query.But backup being disturbed by query is not possible in Oracle.They have cold backup and hot if cold is there DB instance is shutdown so anyhow you wont be able to connect
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