Hi BGan
The best way to debug in this situation is to attach a second instance of Visual Studio to the one in which you are attempting to run your Control on the designer. You will then be able to see whether any debug information is shown when you drag-drop your control.
The most common sources of issue here are that your control's constructor is failing to run; the method above will assist in identifying why.
Mark
Mark Wilson-Thomas - Program Team - WPF & SL Designer for Visual Studio - posts are provided 'as-is'